"The dragon was done years ago. I collect dragons, I've got one on my arm. I was supposed to get two done on my back, but then the Phoenix came along. The Phoenix means strength and unity. The reason is I've known Clare from birth, because our Dads were both in the army. We grew up together, then my dad left the army. Then 24 years later on facebook she found me, and now we've got two sons. So the dragon and the pheonix is me and her."