"We were too poor for engagement rings, so we both got a tattoo of our initials. We drew and designed it ourselves. I was 22 at the time. I really loved it at the time, because it was ours. We split up. But I've kept it, because I think its important for the children to see that we did love each other once. I cried the first time I saw my ex had covered his tattoo up. Its a memory. And if you do document your life in this way, then your tastes are going to change."